Places that Offer Comfort and Security: Our Sanctuaries in Life

The Need for a Place of Comfort and Security

Among the various moments we encounter in life, a place where we feel comfortable and secure holds a very special meaning for each of us. These places play a crucial role in our emotional stability and personal growth, and sometimes they become the driving force that determines the direction of our lives. Sometimes we accumulate stress, and sometimes things don't go well, but if we have a space where we can fully relax, it feels like we can replenish our exhausted energy and try again. If you feel the need for such a place, please read the following content.

A Space to Find Emotional Stability

The space that provides comfort and security can differ from person to person. For some, it might be a quiet corner of a library, while for others, it might be their home, spent with loved ones. These spaces provide us with emotional stability and help alleviate stress. Especially in our busy daily lives, these spaces serve as a temporary refuge, helping us find peace of mind.

For me, the space where I find emotional stability is my home, and more specifically, my bed in my bedroom. The moment I close my eyes and fall asleep, I become the only one present in that space. If my home, especially my sleeping space, wasn't comfortable and didn't provide a sense of security, I think life would be too difficult. I wish this space existed solely for me. Of course, reality is not that simple. When a child is born, the lives of parents are inevitably shattered several times. (┬┬﹏┬┬)

And now, although I don't attend church regularly, I feel that religious places can also be spaces of comfort and security. Regardless, churches have designated times for mass, and during mass, there are many others who share the same purpose, and we can pray together with the priest who leads the mass. These aspects provide a sense of comfort and security, as mentioned earlier, but the meaning can slightly differ. It would be wonderful if I were going to offer a prayer of gratitude, but I find myself often offering prayers asking for relief from pain or requests. It seems to be a space I can turn to when I feel weak and exhausted. Recently, on 'I Live Alone,' I saw Ki-an84 going to a temple, meditating, and making candles filled with wishes. Those scenes also show that he gains energy from the energy that the space provides. Religious spaces certainly have these advantages.

A Foundation for Personal Growth

Furthermore, a place where we feel comfortable and secure serves as a crucial foundation for personal growth. Here, we can have moments of self-reflection and reconsider our life goals and dreams. In our own space, new ideas spring up, and creativity is stimulated. Through this process, we can understand ourselves better and improve the quality of our lives.

For me, this place is the library near my house. Fortunately, there's a library near my house, so I can easily visit whenever I want. I don't always finish reading books in areas I'm interested in, but I can browse through them and see if they're right for me. And somehow, the act of reading books itself implies that I'm making an effort to improve myself, so it has a positive attitude as its foundation. Thus, it's quiet, comfortable, provides a sense of security, and gives me that positive energy. (I talked too much. Libraries are the best!!)

Since there are other people in the library doing similar things, it provides a sense of belonging and psychological stability, making it even better. If my home is a place where I personally feel like I'm resting, then the library space, as I mentioned earlier, is a place where I can feel a sense of belonging with similar people engaging in similar activities.

The Importance of Social Belonging

Social belonging is also an important factor for us. A place that provides comfort and security often stems from relationships with loved ones. Spending time with family, friends, and colleagues gives us a sense of belonging and provides emotional support. These relationships have a positive impact on our mental health and contribute to increased life satisfaction.

I've been working for over 15 years, but the workplace still doesn't easily provide comfort and security. Nevertheless, I strive to make it such a place.

People who really love exercise might find their sense of belonging in a gym. Or maybe CrossFit, which is popular these days. (I'm still a bit scared of intense exercise. +_+)

Running has become quite trendy, so running crews where people run together in sync might also provide that space. (Ki-an84's actions often seem positive to me?!!)

Interacting with Nature

Interacting with nature is also a crucial factor that provides comfort and security. Simply taking a walk, strolling through a forest, or strolling along the beach brings peace to our minds. Nature provides us with psychological stability and reduces stress and anxiety. This interaction with nature has a positive impact on our mental health.

These days, there are surprisingly well-maintained walking paths around residential areas. While it might not be a lush green park, if I have a place I can go to whenever I want to contemplate, that space will also become a place of comfort and security for me. Unfortunately, I haven't set up that last space yet. I need to find a space where I can spend more time and interact with nature.

Conclusion

In conclusion, a place where we feel comfortable and secure plays a very important role in our lives. These spaces provide us with emotional stability, personal growth, social belonging, and interaction with nature, enriching our lives. Through this writing, I hope you find your own comfortable and secure space to enhance your quality of life.

And I'd appreciate it if you could introduce such a place to me as well.

An Unusual Conclusion

Among the places where men in their 40s feel comfortable, cars were mentioned. While it might be a fun anecdote often embellished, it's somewhat relatable. When you think about it, it's one of the few places that offer privacy, quiet, and the opportunity to do the things you like. A round of applause to all the fathers of this era who cherish their car spaces. ☆*: .｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆